We have all been hurt. You meet that dude that puts it on you. He's got that swag but he also got an attention span problem. A great many women are very protective of their men. That is understandable. At a healthy level its about respect for your relationship within and without. BUT: (and a big one it is) Here is when it becomes unhealthy. When women completely acquiesce to the sentiment "He's just a man" or "Men will be men" or any other version of "he-can't-help-it-because-he-has-a-penis" bullshit social issues arise. Personally I've been advised in the past that if I cared for a man I'd fight for him. I've also been told you have to be careful about who you have your man around because some chic might steal him..blah blah blah. I heard what they were saying but I didn't listen. Why? Because men aren't expensive gadgets or a rare breed of some sort of pet. They have brains. They can make decisions. If I have to ...