We have all been hurt. You meet that dude that puts it on you. He's got that swag but he also got an attention span problem.
A great many women are very protective of their men. That is understandable. At a healthy level its about respect for your relationship within and without.
BUT: (and a big one it is)
Here is when it becomes unhealthy. When women completely acquiesce to the sentiment "He's just a man" or "Men will be men" or any other version of "he-can't-help-it-because-he-has-a-penis" bullshit social issues arise.
Personally I've been advised in the past that if I cared for a man I'd fight for him. I've also been told you have to be careful about who you have your man around because some chic might steal him..blah blah blah.
I heard what they were saying but I didn't listen. Why? Because men aren't expensive gadgets or a rare breed of some sort of pet. They have brains. They can make decisions. If I have to spend time worrying about who my significant other is around because they can't be trusted not to have sex with someone else, then obviously that person is not committed to the relationship. Which means why am I wasting my time?
Some may still maintain that fighting for your man is an attempt to protect the financial situation in your home.
Some feel like if they can just teach that other bitch a lesson, everything will fall into place. And while they are standing in front of a Judge learning their own lesson, that asshole is back at the house fucking their cousin on that brand new leather couch they bought. And after he done with their cousin he gonna bust some cherries playing COD on the X Box they bought him.
Again bullshit. If you are single and your financial situation rests upon the continued presence of a man who can't commit to you by not sleeping with other women, then you are in the wrong. That's right I said it.
YOU FUCKIN' UP.
If you have children with this man and the only thing keeping you from the bread line is chasing his dusty ass around policing his dick...
YOU FUCKIN' UP.
If you are married to this fool with his children and you trying to keep your house by fighting in the street...
BOTH YOU AND YOUR LAWYER (OR ABSENCE OF ONE THEREOF) ARE FUCKING UP.
Just stop the nonsense. It sucks to admit to oneself. I hated having to tell myself this shit but it is true.
Men are fully aware of their actions. That's why the majority of the time they try to hide them. And if he isn't trying to hide it...MESSAGE! He doesn't want you.
And there is some truth for that ass.
A great many women are very protective of their men. That is understandable. At a healthy level its about respect for your relationship within and without.
BUT: (and a big one it is)
Here is when it becomes unhealthy. When women completely acquiesce to the sentiment "He's just a man" or "Men will be men" or any other version of "he-can't-help-it-because-he-has-a-penis" bullshit social issues arise.
Personally I've been advised in the past that if I cared for a man I'd fight for him. I've also been told you have to be careful about who you have your man around because some chic might steal him..blah blah blah.
I heard what they were saying but I didn't listen. Why? Because men aren't expensive gadgets or a rare breed of some sort of pet. They have brains. They can make decisions. If I have to spend time worrying about who my significant other is around because they can't be trusted not to have sex with someone else, then obviously that person is not committed to the relationship. Which means why am I wasting my time?
Some may still maintain that fighting for your man is an attempt to protect the financial situation in your home.
Some feel like if they can just teach that other bitch a lesson, everything will fall into place. And while they are standing in front of a Judge learning their own lesson, that asshole is back at the house fucking their cousin on that brand new leather couch they bought. And after he done with their cousin he gonna bust some cherries playing COD on the X Box they bought him.
Again bullshit. If you are single and your financial situation rests upon the continued presence of a man who can't commit to you by not sleeping with other women, then you are in the wrong. That's right I said it.
YOU FUCKIN' UP.
If you have children with this man and the only thing keeping you from the bread line is chasing his dusty ass around policing his dick...
YOU FUCKIN' UP.
If you are married to this fool with his children and you trying to keep your house by fighting in the street...
BOTH YOU AND YOUR LAWYER (OR ABSENCE OF ONE THEREOF) ARE FUCKING UP.
Just stop the nonsense. It sucks to admit to oneself. I hated having to tell myself this shit but it is true.
Men are fully aware of their actions. That's why the majority of the time they try to hide them. And if he isn't trying to hide it...MESSAGE! He doesn't want you.
And there is some truth for that ass.
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