They Call Me Cookie to My Face

 Oh Mr. Ye what will you do next? Apparently the new rumor running about regarding Kanye's marriage to Bianca is that she doesn't have free will. A reporter approached Kanye and his wife with her phone recording to ask him about this rumor. He promptly snatches the phone from her hand like an accomplished kung fu student taking the pebble from master's hand.  The assumption that Biana Censori who is an educated, independently wealthy woman of Italian organized crime heritage is somehow subservient to Kanye West is laughable.  This is the same man who had his billionaire crown snatched off him for insulting the Jewish community. This is the same man that has been called crazy and openly stalked for years.  Yes, because the only reason why a young beautiful successful woman would be with one the most prolific and influential hip hop artists of this era is because she is being controlled.  I would have snatched that bitch's phone too.  Back to the stalking... ...

  Him: "Would you be homeless with me?" Me: "Is it the Apocalypse?" I get it what he was trying to say and I respect his right to say it but that doesn't mean I should let him get away with saying that shit.  Men like to test women as if they are the ones that hold the keys to society. For some reason, this man in particular seem to have gotten it in his mind that I was a gold digger. I think the cognitive dissonance associated with a severe personality disorder is to blame.  In general, I find that women of color have to prove their love to men. Even if they are paying for everything. Even if they are doing all the work. Even if they show up wearing a cape to help save the day, they still have to prove themselves.  So when he asked me if I would be homeless with him, my first instinct wasn't to retaliate against years of philosophical gaslighting that women of color experience. Honestly, there wasn't enough time to even get to that place.  My first inst...

 Its in their brain. The misogynistic male is such because his neurons are wrapped in entitlement.  And women are to blame.  As women (yes, I am including myself) we cannot continue to reward certain behaviors and ignore other behaviors and somehow magically expect chivalrous men to pop out the ground.  We are sowing seeds of laziness and complacency.  I understand that we are not all the same. We all want different things and have different goals and needs.  But I don't think that any of us want to live in a world where men believe that women are to be sexually abused and silent.  I also don't think most women want to live in a world where their success, independence and assertiveness are declarations of war.  I grew up in the south where the refined young woman was taught to secure a marriage young. You are always to be pretty and submissive. You are to marry above your station (and older than you). You have children and give a man no reason to ...