They Call Me Cookie to My Face

 I know I'm wrong.  Calling someone a hood rat is disrespectful, borderline racist (depending on who is using it and context), and just ratchet.  But some bitches out here exhibit the type of behavior that warrants no other mot juste. I have had 2 separate seemingly unrelated women try this shit on me within 6 months.  The first one was a mother of 4 children. Her baby's father (of the 3 smallest) is an alcoholic and, according to her, abusive.  This woman has ghosted me more than once. I should have taken the hint and just left her alone.  After lending her money (which she paid back) and calling the police on her drunk ass baby daddy at her request,  she proceeded to admonish me for my "negative energy." I texted her on the day of her planned birth of the 3rd child of this fool and asked if the "demon" was still at the house. She had previously told me that she didn't want this man at the birth of his own child.  I got a nasty text about negativ...

  I've never really been a big complainer. I wasn't the bossy kid as a habit.  I guess that is why when I finally started speaking up I was perceived as having an attitude.  And to top it off, I'm not the vision of what society views as a woman who is worthy of her demands.  I am dark skinned with coily hair. I don't have a bodacious figure. I'm not a socialite.  I feel as though the response I get for demanding respect and enforcing my boundaries is:  "Who does she think she is?" It is a sad reality that more universally or conformingly attractive women are seen as worthy of what they want.  Seems like if you are not handing out erections you have no right to be respected. And woe unto the woman who refuses to conform and has the nerve to be independent. WE MUST BURN HERRRRR! I'm not hear to whine. I just wanted to get something off my chest.  I have been suffering in silence about these sorts of things. I have to fight for the most basic forms o...

  I just finished the K drama series "Possessed." I thought the series was amazing.  Of course, because I am late to these things I wanted to read the reviews.  There were so many negative takes on the series ending.  One criticism in particular stood out to me as a indication of how much research they did for this show.  Those that commented on the continuity of the spirits that visited the character Pil-Sung. The critic pointed out they seemed to "disappear" for a few episodes and then came back in the end.  If you are someone who has experiences with entities or knows someone who does, then you would know how ignorant this criticism is.  I believe the reason one ceases to "see" the ghosts is because they have become such a routine part of the character's life that they no longer shock the senses.  You don't see the ghosts but you continue to see the altar offering food throughout the series.  This is an indication that the writing staff di...